Here is a process that can help you deal with any sense of hurt you may be experiencing.
(1) First of all, stop blaming the other or others for the hurt. And don't blame yourself, either. When you blame another for your hurt, you find out all too soon that the hurt doesn't go away.
(2) Ask yourself, are you willing to look at your weaknesses? Are you daring enough? Are you willing to work with the idea that the hurt has its cause in yourself, not outside of yourself? And are you willing to change? These are very important questions because if you can come to a place of answering yes to all of them and be willing to work from a base of those insights, you can go on in this healing process.
(3) Understand, the other did not hurt you. You allowed the hurt. The only way another can hurt you is when you don't respect your own divinity. The real reason you are miserable is that you don't know who you are, and you are not constantly connected to the Source of love and joy.
